The demands of our modern world have created immense pressure on families and households. With the growth of the dual income family, each individual in the family is left with fewer and fewer resources like time, energy and chances to regroup. The result is families become exhausted and under more strain. Bringing into balance the priorities of the individuals in a family allows them to function as a system. With this systemic approach the family is brought together as a whole and gains requisite skills for growth.